I often feel like I have multiple personalities, and knowing which one I should be using can be difficult. Sometimes I know who I want to be, but it’s not always the one I think I should be. There are even times I know who I am and who I should be, but I don’t want to be either of them.
I act as my husband’s medical decision maker
Many times, I’m expected to act “in the place of” my husband. I’m his medical decision maker and his power of attorney.