Clarifying Care Expectations
Clarify Care Expectations Early
Clarifying care expectations early in a caregiver/employer relationship goes a long way in preventing conflict-related job performance expectations when a The basic unit in society traditionally consisted of two parents and their children but the family has now been expanded to include any of various social units differing from but regarded as equivalent to the traditional family. member works for another family member or anyone else for that matter.
Did You Hear What I Said?
When two people have a conversation, both come with preconceived ideas regarding how it will go. Each has an expectation based on prior history, culture, and their understanding of word definitions.
Hear Their Own Story
Because each person made up a story about how the conversation would go in advance, what they hear is often not what the other person said when the real talk happens. Instead, what they hear is what the other person said tainted by what they expected the other person to say.
We all tell ourselves a story about what we hear based on how that information may affect us. OR, our story may represent leftover emotions from similar situations in the past. We insert into the story the other party’s motives for their word choices and their body language based often on our mood, assumptions, and how well we slept the night before. We then react or respond to the statement, based on (1) what we think we heard PLUS (2) what we told ourselves about what we heard. The above process happens within seconds.
Don’t Assume They Heard You
I share this tidbit of wisdom with you because we naively believe that the other person hears what we say when we speak. We also think that they will do what we asked them to do, the way we asked them to do it.
We used to believe the world was square once, too, but we got wiser.
The facts are:
- They didn’t hear what you think you said.
- They likely didn’t understand what you intended to mean.
- Therefore, they have agreed to do something different from what you think they will do in their minds.
Put It In Writing
Try asking someone some time to tell you what you just said or what you meant. You might be surprised. It’s a good way to find out if your message came across correctly. Often it doesn’t. That’s why you must put expectations into writing, for both parties’ sake. If any of the details change along the way, write in the changes, and have BOTH parties initial and date the change to prevent misunderstandings.
What to Cover When You Talk
The following topics are suggestions of what you may want to discuss before starting the role of caregiver. Feel free to add or delete from the list as desired.
Care Expectations List
- What is the level of care required? i.e., Do they need limited, partial, or total dependence or assistance?
- Does the role include managing the home as well as providing care? For example, who is responsible for paying the bills, taking care of business transactions, managing house maintenance, vehicle maintenance, etc.?
- If responsible for bill payment, will you be a Durable A power of attorney is a written authorization to represent or act on another’s behalf in private affairs, business, or some other legal matters.? Are you the only one, or is it shared?
- Will you be a Medical Decision Maker? Are you the only one, or is it shared?
- How much time do they expect you to be physically present with them? Are you on 24- hour call? How much freedom do you have?
- Will you have a private room with a locked door if you live with them?
- Will you be paid if you live there?
- When you are there, are you free to use their phones, eat their food, and use their supplies?
- Can you have a friend visit?
- Do any of the other family members have concerns about your role(s)?
- What hours do they expect you to keep? Will you have a vacation?
Once you know what everyone expects, draft a A contract typically between a family member who agrees to provide caregiver services for a disabled or aging relative and the person receiving care that details the care expectations and payment, if any, for services.. Information on how to prepare one is in the next column.
Personal Care Agreements and Their Importance to Medicaid Eligibility
Medicaid’s Asset Limits
Medicaid is a federally aided state-operated program that provides medical benefits for low incomes people who meet specified eligibility criteria. Individual states determine the benefits covered, program eligibility, rates of payment for providers, and methods of administering the program. has an asset limit of $2000 that applicants must meet to qualify for benefits. Since $2000 is a low number, most individuals do not qualify for benefits initially. The majority of seniors have retirement plans, property, personal valuables, or other valuables they have collected over the years that total more than $2,000.
Need to Reduce Assets are possessions, property, resources, belongings, money, valuable, and whatever makes up your worldly wealth. Liquid assets are possessions that can quickly be turned into cash. to Meet Medicaid Eligibility
To achieve eligibility, they need to reduce or eliminate their possessions (assets). As they eliminate assets, the process must follow guidelines acceptable to Medicaid. Selling off possessions for less than their value or giving items away as gifts to relatives is unacceptable. Another way to reduce funds is to transfer money from one account to another by giving a family member payment for bogus services.
Medicaid Looks-Back Over Five Years
When someone applies for Medicaid, part of the application process is a “look back” over the past five years to see how they spent their money. Medicaid checks bank records to determine if it appears that past assets were gifted or inappropriately sold at less than value. If Medicaid determines that an applicant has violated the “look back” rule, a penalty of Medicaid ineligibility results.
Patient Care Agreement Validates Use of Payments
If you are paying someone regularly to care for your family member, you run the risk of jeopardizing your ability to obtain Medicaid assistance. Medicaid may consider these payments as gifts, and hence, in violation of the look-back rule. On the other hand, a personal care agreement legitimizes the reason for payments made to the individual. It provided proof of payment for services requested in advance and performed as agreed. With a verbal agreement, there is no proof.
Record Daily Work Hours
In addition to the written Agreement, caregivers should keep a daily log detailing the services provided, the hours worked, and payments received. The Agreement serves as further proof of the relationship between the Medicaid applicant (care recipient) and the caregiver, should Medicaid need it.
Writing Care Agreements
What is a Care Agreement?
A care agreement spells out the details of the agreement between the caregiver and the family member related to the performance of personal care services and any Instrumental activities involve non-personal activities such as managing finances, handling transportation, shopping, preparing meals, using telephone and other communication devices, managing medications, housework, and essential home maintenance. In contrast to activities of daily living which are personal activities such as dressing, eating, bathing, etc. of daily living such as managing finances, shopping, transportation, etc. Generally, a care agreement speaks to the following:
- Date care starts (and if it’s for a specified time frame, include expected end date)
- What tasks to perform – try to be somewhat specific but use terms broad in scope to cover group tasks (you can say vacuums all rooms rather than list each room, for instance), and add “or similar tasks to be mutually agreed upon by the parties.”
- Hours of work (schedule and hours of availability)
- Rate and frequency of pay
- A statement that the terms of the agreement can only be changed if both agree to do so in writing.
What Type of Tasks to Include
Activities of Daily Living
Feeding, toileting, picking out what to wear, dressing, to clean and maintain the appearance, maintaining continence, bathing, walking, transferring, cleaning eyeglasses or helping with contacts, and Mouth care and cleanliness including flossing and brushing teeth regularly is required for good oral hygiene..
Managing finances, handling transportation, shopping, preparing meals, using telephone and other communication devices, managing medications, housework, and
Care agreements formally establish a business relationship between the care recipient (employer) and caregiver (employee). Based on the Agreement’s written terms and conditions, the caregiver receives pay for providing care services. Care agreements serve multiple purposes. The Agreement documents an honest working relationship by clearly establishing expectations between the employer and employee regarding pay and work.
Another way an individual may attempt to reduce assets is to pay the caregiver a high salary or hourly rate. Be careful what you pay the caregiver. Don’t pay an excessively high wage. The pay rate cannot be higher than the going rate for that type of care in the area in which one resides.
While payments can be made periodically, such as weekly or bi-weekly, a lump sum payment is allowed provided, the payment is not retroactive. The lump-sum payment cannot represent services provided before the establishment of the contract. Instead, payments must be pay-as-you-go and not a lump sum.
It is critical to calculate lump-sum payments correctly. Incorrectly calculating the payment is cause for Medicaid to consider it a gift, even in the states that allow for this type of payment. Therefore, it could violate the Medicaid look-back rule and result in a period of Medicaid ineligibility. When calculating a lump-sum payment, use two factors; a reasonable hourly pay (market rate) and the life expectancy of the care recipient using an actuarial life table (a table that calculates the remaining life expectancy of persons at various ages). If a Medicaid recipient dies earlier than the calculated life expectancy, pay the remaining funds to Medicaid.
Both the caregiver and care recipient must sign family caregiver contracts. Some states require notarization to be Medicaid compliant.
The most common personal care agreements are between aging parent and adult children. However, these contracts are also created for grandchildren caring for grandparents, nieces, and nephews caring for aunts and uncles and siblings caring for siblings. While this type of contract is generally between two family members, the caregiver does not have to be related to the care recipient. Rather, the care recipient could be a close friend or a private caregiver.
Personal care agreements between spouses as a “spend down” method for excess assets are not effective. The reason why is because Medicare is a federally funded health insurance program for
• people aged 65 and over,
• persons eligible for social security disability payments, and
• people who need kidney transplants or dialysis.
It consists of two separate programs: hospital and outpatient medical insurance. considers all assets of a married couple as jointly owned.
Care agreements should include the following information:
Job Functions Vs. Tasks
Make a list of the types of job functions needed but don’t try to list all the tasks required. Why would I recommend not listing all the job duties? Shouldn’t you tell someone everything they need to do?
If you try to list each task, you’ll forget something. Then, if it’s not on the list, the caregiver may question if they are to do it. Instead, use terms that describe functions rather than tasks to prevent confusion regarding whether tasks can be added or deleted as the job changes over time.
When you’re writing the job description section, don’t write out the tasks in this manner:
Performs vacuuming, dusting, scrubs bathroom tubs and fixtures, cleans the toilet, washes dishes, etc.
Instead, think in terms of grouped tasks and list the duties like this:
Completes light housekeeping to include all rooms except the Master bathroom and bedroom, cleans all surfaces and fixtures in bathroom and kitchen including floors, baseboards, etc.
Pay Rate and Frequency of Payment
The contract must include the caregiver’s rate of pay, which, as mentioned previously, must be no more than the going rate in the area in which one resides. Also included must be how often to pay the caregiver. For instance, is the caregiver paid weekly, bi-weekly, once a month, or was the payment made in a lump sum?
Start Date / Length of Agreement
Include the date that care needs to begin in the Agreement. Remember, it must be a future date; you cannot backdate the contract. Also, it is important to include how long the Agreement will remain in effect. Will the period be short term, such as just a few years, or for its life?
Modification / Termination Clause
Include a clause allowing modification of the personal care agreement when both parties agree to the changes. If the Agreement is long term, I highly recommend reviewing the Agreement and modifying it as needed annually. I also recommend adding a clause that allows for the termination of the Agreement.
Both parties, the care recipient and the caregiver, must sign the personal care agreement. Some states require notarization for validity purposes.
When it comes to creating a formal care agreement and paying a caregiver, even a small mistake can cause a denial of long-term care Medicaid coverage. Below are common mistakes made (and should be avoided):
- Paying a caregiver retroactively. Remember, care agreements pay caregivers for care planned for the future not previously provided. That’s why the Agreement has a start date for future care services.
- The caregiver does not keep a daily log of services provided, and payments received. Sometimes this log is needed for Medicaid as further proof that payments were made to the caregiver for care services rather than given as a gift.
- Rate of pay is not reasonable. If pay is higher than the going rate for the type of care provided, it can be considered a gift for Medicaid purposes.
- Being unaware of the rules in the state in which one resides. For instance, some states require that the signed Agreement be notarized, and some states do not allow for a lump sum payment for services.
No, it is unnecessary to hire an attorney to create a personal care agreement; however, it is a good idea in some situations. The advice and guidance of a professional Medicaid planner can be very helpful. Doing so is particularly true if the care recipient plans to apply for long-term care Medicaid in the future. A Medicaid applicant may unknowingly violate Medicaid’s look-back rule by drafting a personal care agreement incorrectly. If so, Medicaid may penalize the applicant with an ineligibility period. Medicaid experts are aware of the specific rules regarding personal care agreements in the state in which one resides and can help ensure the contract is Medicaid compliant. For persons who plan to make a lump sum payment, it becomes even more important to consult a professional for guidance due to the higher risk of the payment looking like a gift, hence violating Medicaid’s look-back rule.
Date of Hire
Effective October 1, 2020, and until such time that either party chooses to stop this Agreement, Donna Steigleder will provide personal care services to her brother, Bubba, at his home located at # road name, City, State, Zip.
Hours of Work
While Donna’s hours may be flexible based on Bubba’s care needs and her needs at home, her hours will be Monday through Friday from 9:00 a.m. through 4:00 p.m. She may also occasionally work on weekends, depending on Bubba’s care needs and availability, a day later, or come in earlier. However, most weeks, her total hours will average 35 hours.
Rate of Pay
Donna’s will be paid weekly on Monday for hours worked the previous week Monday. Her workweek is Monday midnight through Sunday 11:59 p.m. Her hourly rate of pay is $12/hour. She is not eligible for benefits nor time and a half if she works over forty. She is responsible for filing her taxes and will receive 1099 at the end of the year for tax purposes.
Donna’s job responsibilities are to see to Bubba’s comfort and personal hygiene needs throughout the day to include assistance with mobility, nutrition, transportation to appointments as needed, assistance with accessing diversional entertainment,
• Watching to give warning;
• To watch, keep track of, or check usually for a special purpose
his health, ensuring his safety, and reporting any concerns that might surface to XXXX. Duties may be modified, added, or deleted upon notification and with the Agreement of both parties. Either party may also terminate this Agreement immediately with or without notice; however, I request a two-week notice if possible to allow for time to obtain a replacement if Donna should decide to leave.